Is She Interested or Not: 5 Signs to Look for
You are on a date with a gorgeous girl. She seems friendly and excited, and it feels like she is attracted to you. But you can’t really tell for sure. You can’t read her mind, you figure. Or can you?
Of course you can if you try a little bit. You just have to look for the following signs:
Strong eye contact
Does she look right into your eyes unapologetically? If yes, that is a good sign. Unless we are consciously forcing eye contact for some reason, we only make strong eye contact with people we like; especially so when the person is of the opposite sex. However, sometimes, she may not really look into your eyes even if she is interested. Instead, she may throw shy glances your way once in a while and avert her eyes shyly when you initiate eye contact. That is mostly the case when she is too nervous, or is generally a shy girl.
Maybe you have heard that our pupils dilate when we enter a dark room. But that is not the only time our pupils dilate. The same thing happens when we look at something we like. So if her pupils seem dilated, it is almost a surefire sign that she likes you.
Our body works in strange ways. One of the most potent signs of interest the body can exhibit is mirroring. That is when the girl unconsciously makes gestures that are similar to your gestures. For example, she may touch her chin right after you put your hand on your chin. If you are standing, she may shift weight from one of her legs to the other leg when you do the same. There are many other examples of mirroring.
Girls cannot help it. If they like someone, they naturally play with their hair. They may simply touch their hair occasionally, or may touch near ear. So if she seems to be touching her hair a lot, that is a strong positive sign.
The girls who do not like you will normally not come too close to you. If a girl leans toward you a lot when you two are talking or spending time with each other, or touches you occasionally, that is her way of showing interest. Also, if the girl likes you she will respond favorably to your touches for the most part, as well.